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I have a pretty good sex with my boyfriend except for one thing..he does not go down on me. When I asked him why he just makes a joke then changes the subject. He is always looking for a blow job which I happily give, but when it comes to my pleasure he isn’t so willing, what should I do?
Dear No Oral Action,
Oh no he didn’t with his selfish self…of course he is all ready for you to give him head, he probably has his hands on your head before you can even get in to a good comfortable bj position. Is he selfish in other ways as well?
Back to the problem at hand, continue to try and talk to him about this because it is important to you. Your satisfaction in the boudoir is just as important as his. You may find out something about him which may be causing him to not want to go down on you.
And girl I have to ask, are you as clean and fresh as you should be? That could cause him to not want to all up in your business so to speak. Some ladies don’t understand that it needs to be nice and tidy in the vagina area if you want oral visitation to happen, men do notice when a woman does not take care of herself even though they may take one for the team depending on how much they want to get laid.
Keep communicating with him and hopefully he will eventually make the rounds with his mouth downtown.
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